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The Dark Side of the Westport Art Fair
Art fairs are a mixed bag of the known and unknown. Locally there was the just concluded Westport art show, and at the end of month, the Plaza Art Fair. Toss in your third grade grandchild’s “art” collection display and you have a broad spectrum of people and events to take in. But as Cutest and I observed this past weekend, there’s much more to see, whether you are ready for it or not! Canines! Why do folks feel compelled to leash up man’s favorite four-legged friend and dr
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3 days ago2 min read


Of Surprises and Disappointments - A Very Short (Partial) Memoir by a Sleep Starved Traveler
Very saddening - the line was too long inside so I didn't get to taste a childhood favorite. My UP Granpa always made them when they visited for a month. Always in the winter of course. We landed in Traverse City, which gave us a taste of another small airport. After a nice, green, heavily treed two hour drive, we arrived in Mackinac City which was the second surprise. Basically think the Ozarks’ Bagnell Dam strip with fewer smoke shops, tattoo parlors, bars and marijuana
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Sep 92 min read


Shining at The Morton
Partly thanks to those folks who sell salt in containers sporting the girls dressed in yellow skirts and toting yellow umbrellas, KC now has a great new amphitheater. It sits in an area surrounded by grassland and newly built warehouses not far from Parkville but located in Riverside, MO. The Morton, current name rights holder, sports a 12,000 padded seat amphitheater. This quite comfortable venue is where you can see and hear ‘60s and ‘70s top rock groups or modern day bands
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Sep 13 min read


California Dreamin'
A short trip with the shortest blog I (Cutest) have probably ever written. Cute and I wanted to leave the heat and humidity for a while so we flew to California and drove from San Diego to Santa Barbara. We did succeed in losing the humidity, but California was (is) in the midst of a heat wave and the temps were in the upper 80s up to 90 something. Nonetheless, we managed to see many interesting sights - flora, history vignettes, ocean views, but no fauna. We learned that A
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Aug 262 min read


The Wall, KC, and Me
The Berlin Wall. Yes, that one in Germany of so many years ago, not the wall that sits on our southern border that ignites debates during happy hours. The wall we will be highlighting today is legendary stuff that your grandparents, parents or history teachers may have bored you with. Cutest and I know that many fellow “Boomers” lived prior to, during and post wall-world headlines. But during our embarrassing acne years, a great number of us slept through current events clas
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Aug 172 min read


The Big Mystery SurpriseTrip
Cute insisted I wear the celebratory headgear he bought me. Several weeks ago, Cute told me to save August 6, 7, 8 on my calendar. Why I asked. “You’ll see,” said he. Not very satisfying, but for once in my life I held my tongue. That was very uncomfortable by the way. Three weeks ago, I asked for more details and he told me we would be in the car. This immediately excited me because there’s nothing I like better than a nice long ride in a car. A few days later, he assuaged
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Aug 115 min read


Is It Possible to Put the FUN in Fundraising?
Cutest here, thinking about the last couple months and this blog which I’ve put off doing for reasons unknown. Too much else to write about methinks. You are probably like us in that you have a “cause” or two or six that you particularly believe in and support as you can. You send money or you physically contribute in some way, you tell your friends, you go to “galas” or parties occasionally, you do what you can to help people, freedom, the environment, education, whatever.
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Aug 43 min read


Rolling, Rolling, Rolling On the River
From the shoreline paralleling the KC women’s soccer stadium overlooking the Missouri river, and as light rain had me wishing I had an umbrella, I couldn’t help but reflect on Tina Turner belting out those famous lyrics from Proud Mary as I watched over 600 participants in the MR340 float by. This doesn't capture 600 rowers but believe me, they were out there. This race began at 7 AM, not Cutest’s normal wake up-activities-time. So I, accompanied only with coffee in hand, wa
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Jul 282 min read


Too Hot for a Hot New Adventure?
Yes, of course that's me, Cutest. There's even a picture of Cute in this blog. Why yes it is. Too too hot. Too hot for floating in the lake, with our legs stuck through the arm holes of oversized life vests. Too hot to sit in the big screened-in porch with a fan going overhead, trying to enjoy the placid beauty of the lake and trees and the occasional roar of a too-big boat. Too hot and too humid to breathe without feeling like the air is going to choke you. But, we said c
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Jul 232 min read


Fireworks on the Plaza?
Thanks to Ease My Trip for this photo. Boom went the dynamite, or C-4 or whatever demolition teams use these days to implode a building. This past Sunday afternoon at 4 PM, one of the Plaza’s destination hotels, Embassy Suites, tumbled down. Unfortunately neither Cutest nor I were there to witness the explosive occasion. I was enjoying one of my frequent siestas while Cute was keeping her youthful figure* by doing miles in the condo’s workout room. I was bereft that I missed
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Jul 142 min read


To Market, to Market (but No Fat Pig)
Ahh, the provincial farmers' market. Where sweaty farmers display home (farm?) grown produce in shiny primary colors or coated with the remains of their earthly habitats from rickety tables adorned with penciled price signs which were always lower than at the grocery store. Well, not so much anymore if you travel to Overland Park Market's new digs at 79th and Marty. We went this morning (NOT at the crack of dawn) because I, Cutest, was looking for heirloom tomatoes (not to
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Jul 82 min read


Celebrating the 4th of July with You
Well, it's cloudy, raining, and the forecast is NOT good. So as an extra blog, in case you're extra bored like we are, we thought we'd show you fireworks. These are not the kind you usually see. We saw those last night in Blue Springs and were counting on more tonight . . but we'll see. Those forecasts are so often wrong. Instead, since Cute always buys fireworks for his grandchild's big display, we went to Riverside and chose, from among several, the tent nearest to RedX
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Jul 41 min read


Red, White, Blue - and Orange?
(Definitely not Cutest) Unless you have been: A. Out of the country this past week; B. Have refused to watch or listen to local news; or C. Are so tired of words like pitch, match, striker, or Messi that you leave your ear plugs in, then you failed to witness Cow Town becoming an international soccer city. To crank up the Norwegian fan base before that evening’s match at Arrowhead, a parade from the Power and Light district to Crown Center was organized for that morning. A s
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Jun 303 min read


FI FA FO FUN
Cute and I have made every effort to become international soccer, aka football, fans in Kansas City. Although we lack the accents, the clothes, the fervent enthusiasm, (and the money), we have valiantly attended one fan rally, the Fan Fest and finally, this weekend, a real game between Ecuador and Curaçao (formerly known to me as only a tasty liqueur, sometimes blue). I’m sure you haven’t been able to miss the hype and you may be tired of it all already (there’s still almos
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Jun 233 min read


Wright on the Plaza
Once again I, Cute, strike out on my own to explore one of our local gems, right here in River City. (Cutest was, bless her heart, happily preparing for out-of-town guests.) Frank Lloyd Wright, the architect whom many people either love or hate, designed a church for a congregation here on the Plaza. In 1939, fire destroyed the Community Christian church at 46th and Main, whose name before that was the Linwood Boulevard Christian Church. The small but plucky congregation reac
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Jun 162 min read


Neighborhood Mixology
This past Sunday, for the third year in a row, Cutest and I strolled about the neighborhood known as Union Hill. Each year in June, folks are invited to purchase tickets and tread the sidewalks, absorbing the beauty of more than fourteen flower gardens nestled in front of, beside or behind eclectic homes. Bucolic Union Hill is bounded by Main to the west, Gillham to the east, 31st street to the south and 27th street on the north. A quick history lesson. Union Hill was establi
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Jun 92 min read


Bridge over Muddied Waters
(Thanks to Discover Kansas City for this and a few other photos.) The other night I was reminded how cool it would be to buy a bridge. Cute and I were attending an event sponsored by his alma mater, the University of Central Missouri (Go, Mules) at the new two-level “entertainment district” on the Rock Island Bridge. It was a Thursday night and the event was on the top level with the lower level devoted to the public – families, couples, groups, all mixed. I can’t speak to
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Jun 22 min read


Memorializing - The Kansas City Way
Cutest and I can really get into the holidays. In my book, Christmas and the 4th of July, for different reasons, tie for the top spot. However Memorial Day has recently become a close contender. Kansas City is the home of the world’s only nationally recognized museum and monument for WW1. This is the 100th anniversary of the completion of the memorial. Recently more space has been added to properly display artifacts that had been in storage. Hundreds more still sit unseen bu
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May 262 min read


Chicago: My, Yours, and Whoever's Kind of Town
As our faithful readers learned last week, Cutest and I, emphasis on I, drove to Bloomington, Indiana for Cutest's granddughter's college graduation. The following day, after much celebration the night before, and a too short of a stop in Indianapolis, we motored north to Chicago. Chicago, home of the Cubs, have the dubious distinction of being the only other professional baseball team that loses more than the Royals. However this city by the lake has many redeeming qualities
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May 193 min read


The Need for Speed
First time ever (maybe last, too) . . . Watch, don't give up, and then read below. It's all speedy. “Oh the fun we will have,” I exclaimed when Cute told me that we would make time for the Indianapolis Motor Speedway Museum. He knew I was being facetious as he is the car lover of our coupleness. We were on our way to Chicago From Bloomington, Indiana where my smart and gorgeous (grandparents you know the drill) granddaughter had just gone through IU’s intimate 8,000+ person
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May 142 min read
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